My Whole30 Challenge Experience

What I learned most through the course of this challenge is to be mindful of my eating habits. When I had cravings during this past month, I made a note and really thought about why I was having those cravings. In most cases, my reaction was tied to emotion.

What Love Is and Isn’t

I would like to share a few thoughts on love tonight…what I believe it is and isn’t. What love isn’t: Love is not physical, verbal or emotional abuse, lying, manipulating, cheating, withholding, deceit, apathy, name-calling, contempt, or controlling. If any of those actions exist in a relationship, love is not present. What love is: Love…

Trust

I have been thinking a lot about trust lately. I have determined that trust is the link to human connection. Without trust, there can be no true connection. The people we are drawn to and feel comfortable around are generally the ones that we trust. This works at every level of our lives. Why do…

Reflections and Resolutions…Cheers to 2016

It is the end of 2015, a good time to reflect on the past year. I have had some difficult years emotionally…years that literally brought me to my knees. This was a difficult year on many levels, but I have had worse. I honestly believe that only the best of my life is in front…

A Short Reflection on Paris

With the Paris attacks a day ago has come a lot of reflection on my part. Tragedies like this make you stop and think about your own legacy and impact on this planet. My life’s goal is to make a positive and meaningful impact, first and foremost, on my daughter but also on my family,…

Damaged

I divorced my husband when I was 32; we separated at 30. I had been with him since I was 17. I was a very genuine, yet naïve, person back then. I still believed in fairy tales, which is why it took me so long to give up on my marriage. When I finally realized…

A Cultural Dilemma: The Need to Be Right

In the wake of much political animosity over various cases of alleged excessive police brutality resulting in death (i.e. Michael Brown, Eric Garner, Tamir Rice), I have had very heated discussions with individuals on both sides of the argument on whether these incidences constituted excessive force and/or were driven by racial profiling as well as…

Ferguson

Ever since that fateful day on August 9, 2014 when Michael Brown was shot down in the streets of Ferguson, Missouri by Darren Wilson, I have been thinking and processing and ruminating and debating with others about the issues surrounding this incident and its implications of racism. I feel as though I understand both sides…

Equality

There are many topics I could choose from as my first post on this particular blog. However, there is one that I feel reflects my passion and drive to write in the first place. I am a champion of equal rights for all class, gender, and race of people. We are all raised with a…

Digital Literacy Narrative

I took a class called Digital Literacies in the spring of 2013. One of our assignments was to create a five minute video of an experience or statement about literacy that has impacted us. I created this video, which was the first iMovie I have ever created. It’s a little rough around the edges, but…